My husband loves Christmas. He can’t wait until the tree is up and the decorations out. He bought the tree while I was in the hospital but had it delivered after I came home. It is now up and decorated. (which he did) I am good but still some tired.
I managed to get enough energy to do some of the other decorations and things look pretty nice. We have pared down some over the years and don’t over do.
If we strictly followed our church’s thought we would not put up decorations until Christmas Eve and keep them up for the 12 days of Christmas ending on Epiphany. When I was a child my father and I would walk into the woods and cut a tree on Christmas Eve. That was such an exciting time for me. Just spending time with my father doing something special was enough. I remember it with such fond memories.
I hope we were able to give those kind of memories to our own children. These are things that can’t be duplicated. Expensive gifts are nothing compared to time spent with parents. It is so wonderful when we spend time with our own children playing, what I call, “remember when….the time the dog opened most of the presents under the tree during the night??” Those are the things that last.
Spend on memories not things. The memories last.
Exactly. We go to the beach for Christmas week, because I can’t share memories with my family.
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It makes perfect sense. You are still creating memories with your husband. Those will be precious. My family is not together either as only one of my children lives here. We still have those past memories.
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Wonderful.
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Selecting a tree with dad on Christmas Eve is such a lovely thought. Thanks for sharing the memory.
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He worked so hard and had so little time it was really special for me.
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