Nobody sees a flower—really—it is so small it takes time–we haven’t time—and to see takes time, like to have a friend takes time. Georgia O’Keeffe
We often hear the phrase “take time to smell the roses.” The truth is we seldom do take the time. There are some people who do but most of us don’t. Georgia O’Keeffe painted the flowers and she took the time to really see them….on a level most of us never will. Do I ever see the beauty? Do I ever experience the smell or the shape of the petals? Not often.
O’Keeffe compared this to the time it takes to have a real friend. Seeing all the things about a person and understanding them takes time. Accepting who they really are takes more time and the ability to see beyond the surface. We don’t often take that time but that is how we find friends who understand and accept us as we are.
Stop and really look at that flower. Absorb everything about it. Take the time to do the same things with those who could be real friends.
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Oh, I do! I stoop and smell just about everything! Found some Forget-Me-Not on the bank of a stream near my job and darn near fell in trying to get a closer look.
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Good for you. Most of us don’t take the time. I am better at it now.
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Great post! And a great reminder to stop and experience instead of rushing through.
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Thank you!
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You’re welcome 🙂
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